Encouraging Your Child In The Best Manner Possible

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Perhaps the easiest trap for any parent to fall into is to continually question their parenting style. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, in fact it’s the mark of a caring and concerned parent to feel this way. That being said, it can sometimes prevent you from taking action in the best manner, and from there learning how your results came to pass. It might be that sometimes you need to put your foot down to ensure that your child understands the boundaries you deem acceptable, but in other situations, this might not be the best tactic.

Here’s a freeing fact - it’s impossible to get everything right. The best you can do is continually encourage and support your child, provided you do that in a textured manner. Otherwise, it’s easy to become an overly pushy parent. This can sound too vague for new parents to deal with, because they have plenty on their plate already. The following practical parental guidance should help you understand and consider how to approximate this in the best manner possible, and to move on from there:

Social Encouragement

Social encouragement is certainly a huge helper for many children unsure of themselves. Helping them join team sports, or perhaps join an extracurricular activity, or allowing them to invite friends for their evening meal at your home can be a great means in which to help socialize our children. Additionally, helping them see how to share, connect and try to understand others will have a massive impact on their developmental personality. It’s in this way that most parents will nurture healthy socialization. Teaching them to report conflict or mistreatment can also help them define their own boundaries.

Preschool

Having your child attend preschool can be a massively important developmental stage as their preparation for school. Here they can start to get used to the schedule, play with other children, learn to share, build those connections, and feel a little less worried about things by the time they come to their actual schooling. Preschool attendance has a marked benefit for most children, especially those who may have a nervous disposition, as offering them exposure to this new routine of life will set them up for the yearly schedule from then on.

Nurturing Interests

Nurturing the interests of your child can be a fantastic means of helping them develop their passions. They might show an interest in learning an instrument, or in performing on stage, or in playing a particular sport. If you can help them carefully and slowly become initiated into a local group suitable for their age, you may find that they have no fear about naturally moving forward with their interests, or they’ll be more likely to make those known. It’s not hard to see just how powerful that can be for a young developing mind. Remember, anything goes, and do your best to encourage while never being pushy.

With this advice, you’re sure to encourage your child in the best manner possible.

Toothpick Stuck in Foot

Originally posted February 12, 2010

Last Friday I stepped on a toothpick and got half of it stuck in the heel of my foot. Since I have to post so far in advance (no Internet at home), I could be dead right now, could have a toothpick cut out of my foot, or could have it still in there. It's a cliffhanger for sure.

Anyway, in my internet travels I came across this site, and I can't make this crap up. It is some priceless humor and grammar! 

Updated 12/8/2018: I see this post in my Top Posts feed, which makes me laugh :-) I have to wonder if a lot of people are having this problem or are maybe searching "toothpick erotica." YIKES.

Here's what happened: I was too big of a baby to let anyone dig it out or to do it myself so I put on Neosporin, slapped on a Band-aid, and waited overnight. When I took the Band-aid off, the toothpick LITERALLY slid out of my foot by itself.

Voila. Something to be said for being a big old baby.

I can't tell you how many times since then I have found toothpicks on the floor. Life with kids.

Here's a photo of my husband making fun of the toothpick in my foot. There was huge drama around this situation, friends. Don't worry, it's only ketchup.

What to do About Those Aches and Pains

If you’re suffering with aches and pains that are getting you down and stopping you from getting the most out of your day to day life, it’s time you did something to combat this problem. There are so many things you can do to handle these aches and pains a little better, so there’s no need to suffer in silence and put up with the problems that you’re going through.

It’s all about finding the techniques to beat the pain that work best for you. Some of the ideas we’re about to discuss below will work well for some people and other ideas will work for other people. You need to take a trial and error approach because aches and pains are experienced and dealt with differently by different people. Read on now to find out about the things you should try.

Always Stretch, Warm Up and Cool Down When Being Active

If your pain and aches come about as a result of you exercising, it’s important to make sure you start and end your exercise sessions in the right way. You first need to stretch and do a proper warm up before getting started with your activities. You should also make sure that you take the time to cool your body down with some gentler exercises before you finish completely. If you do all that, you won’t be as likely to suffer injuries, aches and pains afterwards.

Try Strength Training to Ease Lower Back Pain

Strength training can be really helpful to people with lower back pain. When people have pain in this part of their back, it’s often because the surrounding muscles are not offering the support needed. Therefore, by strengthening the muscles in your upper body, you’re able to prevent that kind of pain becoming a problem for you. Bench presses are particularly useful for this kind of issue. They’ll strengthen the right muscles and give your back the support it needs.

Talk to Your Doctor About Medication Options

There are lots of medications and painkillers that are used to treat pain and chronic pain. If you think that this is something that would help you too, you should talk to your doctor about it. They’ll have the answers and options that’ll work for you and they’ll be able to prescribe the medication that provides you with the best outcomes. You can find the one that offers the benefits you need without too many troubles eon side effects. There are plenty of options out there.

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Consider Surgical Solutions if Necessary

There are many options out there for people who are experiencing more severe cases of pain. There are many types of spine surgery that can help with this issue, for example. This is something that you’ll need to talk to a doctor about if you think it’s something that could actually help you to deal with pain better going forward. If they agree that you’d benefit from surgery, you can move ahead with it. Follow the guidance of the doctors and surgeons you trust if you decide to take this route forwards.

Get Regular Massages From a Pro

Massages can be a huge help when it comes to dealing with aches and pains. If you exercise a lot, it’s vital to have regular massages to help your body recover and stay in good shape. It’s not just about making you feel a bit more relaxed in the moment; it’s also about achieving long-term benefits to your body and muscles as well. If you can, get regular massages from a professional because it’ll make a real difference if you’re someone who tends to experience muscle pain.

Stick to a Good Sleep Pattern

Sleeping is really important but it can also be really challenging when it comes to dealing with pain problems. People with chronic pain often find it difficult to sleep, but if you can get a good night’s sleep each night, you’ll find that those aches and pains reduce. Your body needs sleep in order to recover and repair, and that includes recovering from the things that are causing you pain. Try to keep a regular bedtime and get up around the same time each day. It’ll be likely to have a positive impact before long if you do this.

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Combat the Mental Health Problems That Can Result From Chronic Pain

Another thing that often gets ignored is the impact aches and pains can have on your mental health. When you fail to combat mental health problems relating to the pain issues you’re experiencing, it simply makes everything more difficult to overcome. That’s why counselling is something that can so often help people with chronic pain and the mental health issues it causes them. It can be hard to open up and talk but it can help a lot.

Use Breathing Techniques

Breathing techniques can be really helpful when you’re experiencing a really overpowering and overwhelming sense of pain. It helps to calm the body and focus more, and this can help you get past the feelings of pain that you’re experiencing. It’s easy to get started with this and it might have more of an impact than you imagine. Lots of people benefit from it, especially chronic pain sufferers.

Do Gentle Exercise

This might sound counterintuitive, but exercising can help your pain. Of course, we all need to be active in order to stay healthy. But gentle exercise is a great way to deal with some of the underlying problems that cause pain, especially when it relates to your muscles. Get walking and enjoy the natural environment in order to get your body moving. You might be surprised by the outcomes.

If you’ve been struggling with pain problems, be sure to give these ideas a try. Not all of them will be successful for you. But even if just one of these ideas helps you to beat the pain you’ve been experiencing recently or even just reduce it, you’ll have moved in a positive direction.

How to Protect your Money

The modern world revolves around money, and if you don’t have any, you know all about it. If you struggle with your finances, this can be a great source of stress. Uncertainty within the economy can cause you to be paranoid too. However, the truth is, it doesn't really matter how much or how little money you have. What matters is what you do with it. A millionaire could be living in credit, and when a recession hits, they suffer more than the person on $15k a year who has no debts and a cheap place to live. 

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Whoever you are, these tips can help you manage your finances:

Live within your means and save

The people who deal with money the best are realists. They know what they have, what they can afford, and how to manage their lives to work within the funds they have to play with. The world may bombard you with advertisements offering solutions to a wide array of supposed problems. Yet, it is up to you whether or not you put yourself into debt to get the thing you don’t really need in the first place. Take stock of your position. Look at your money and get real. If you can live frugally and live within your financial limitation, you will begin to save money for a rainy day as a natural course of action. Having a savings account will give you that much needed psychological boost. It is security. You will stress less and feel so much more secure. Do not let external influences push you into debt. At the end of the day, it is really not worth it. 

Injuries and insurance

You never know when an accident might happen. You could have an injury at work and be off for months at a time. Before this happens, it’s definitely worth your while to think about insurance, as this will ensure you get paid. However, even if you have insurance, you may be entitled to some compensation. Think about hiring an injury attorney to help you get those funds. This money will go a long way to protect your current savings. 

Investments

There are many different ways to invest your money, long-term and short-term, high-risk and low-risk. Think about your situation and what you can afford to lose. No investment is completely risk-free. There are stocks and shares, and certain shares pay out large dividends so you will be having a return on your investment in the short term as well as the long-term depending on how long you keep the investment. You may want to think about starting your own business on the side. This can protect you if you ever did get made redundant, for example. You could buy bonds, or invest in real estate, even a crowdfunding investment scheme such as Fundrise. When you look to invest, ensure you understand the investment. Do not allow yourself to be sweet-talked into something you do not fully get. This could have devastating effects. 

Give A Little Back To Your Community

Giving back to the community is such a valuable thing to do which can feel incredibly important and it’s so vital to ensure your community is growing and becoming more successful. This can be implemented in many different ways but there are some simple ways to get back into the community. Especially if you have been previously in trouble or had some criminal record previously, it can feel good to help out. If you have a Record Suspension or you would like to prove your with within the community. 

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Tidying Up 

You can find work in your neighbourhood by seeing what local groups help clean up the streets, keeping the place tidy and clean. Picking up trash, keeping the streets safe and clean is a very important task and the results can be seen immediately. It’s a lovely way to get involved with neighbours, to find out what is going on locally and to feel part of something. Often these types of groups are desperate for people to help, whether it’s cleaning up the local parks, or making sure all the trees and streets are cultivated and looking pristine. Search Facebook for local groups and get involved, it’s a good way to give back. 

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Donate 

Donations are never going to go a miss. Whether you’re donating to your local shelters, or to charity and thrift stores, they will always be glad for a donation. Clothes especially in the winter months are very important for homeless people. Shelters also accept blankets, any kind of bedding, clothing, food, this time of year, it’s vital to help those around you and make sure they’re getting what they need when they need it the most. Donating is great if you have too much clutter or you’re wanting to sort through your old boxes of belongings that have been stored in the attic or basement for far too long! You can often donate to your local hospitals too for children such as old toys and games are usually welcomed and it is such a positive for everyone! 

Visit a Senior Center

There are probably a few local nursing homes locally where there may be elderly people who are lonely or perhaps no family to visit them. Some residents may just be wanting someone to chat to, even if they have dementia, they may just want to have a little babble on to someone with a friendly face and often staff do not have the time to commit to helping all of them individually. Stopping by with games, having a cup of tea for just an hour or so a week can make all the difference and the Christmas period is definitely a difficult time when people should come together to help. See what homes are local to you and ask about volunteering for an hour or so to put a smile on someone’s face. The power is in your hands and you have the chance to give a little back this Christmas time.