Friday, February 13, 2009

Stop Dating Jerks!

When I was 18 I made a big mistake and moved in with my boyfriend of only a few weeks. He quickly became abusive, but I was too proud to move back home. One of the other fun things he did was to throw my mementoes and diaries from high school in the Dumpster behind our apartment complex.

There was probably a sheet of paper with the lyrics to “Hold Onto the Nights” by Richard Marx in there. My Prom corsage. Movie ticket stubs. Notes from best girlfriends. There were definitely some juicy diaries I wish I still had, even if just to help me better understand my own kids when they hit teenagerdom.

Oh, and he also ripped my junior year high school yearbook in half when he saw a heartfelt letter written in it by my then-boyfriend and threw it away.

Girls, if you are dating a jerk, STOP IT! You are worth more than that. You KNOW how it feels to be treated right. Seek it out. You CAN have chemistry with a Nice Guy … trust me. The older I get, the more of them I can spot at 50 paces. And I can ALWAYS spot a JERK, even before he opens his mouth. I either steer clear of those guys these days, or else verbally put them in their place.

Now go give your partner a big hug and kiss … or go out and find “The One.” (Sorry, I’m pregnant and bossy)


  1. I had to go read your post again on weight loss and saw the stick comment. Congrats on the new baby! I'm totally envious.

    I think we all dated those jerks! Thank goodness most of us mature and find real men!

  2. Sometimes we need to say this, sad huh?
    I wish we could all know our worth and due to that stay far away.
    Thanks for bringing it up.

  3. Kerrie:
    You should take this message to a high school near you. I know there are girls who need to hear this important message.
    Roberta Anne


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