Thursday, August 31, 2017

My Grandma and Cars.com Lessons for First-Time Buyers


Today's post is an emotional one because it makes me think of my grandparents. My Grandpa Bill died a year and a half ago, and his wife, who my kids called Great Susie, died Sunday. When I think of them, I think of my grandpa buying used cars pretty regularly so they always had something nice to drive. He would spend a lot of time sleuthing out car deals, but this was in the days of ... wait for it ... NO INTERNET! How easy it would be for him to find quality used cars at a deal today!

I have great memories of riding in the back of some lovely four-door classy cars listening to the latest pop music and heading to the local mall, Indian Springs, for some Smak's burgers for lunch then Cone-a-Copia for dessert, followed by some Fun Factory game time and probably even a movie. My grandma was super cool like that. I also remember the days before seat belts were mandatory and a bunch of us would cram into some big car and I'd sit on my Great Aunt Eva's lap eating her Tic Tacs and heading to Metcalf South Mall (now torn down ... so sad).

So fast forward to NOW. I have five kids who are going to be car hunting, which is hard to believe. My oldest is 16, about to get his restricted license (one step away from the "real" thing) and likes to work and make money. This means he is saving for his first car.

Grandma Stump with my oldest son Joel
Enter Cars.com because otherwise I wouldn't have a clue where to start. They aren't just there to sell you cars; they are also there to inform you about things like car seats, multi-car comparisons and lessons for first-time buyers! I was super interested in this last article, and was happy to see it had people sharing their mistakes and wisdom from when they bought their first car.

Look, I bought my first car at age 16 from my PARENTS ... Mom got a new 1984 maroon Chevy Cavalier and there was a 1978 yellow Chevette STICK SHIFT just waiting in the driveway for me to purchase in installments from my parents with my waitressing/hostessing money from Waid's Restaurant.
My Waid's uniform.

I was lucky. My kid doesn't have any hand-me-downs and will have to go hunting for himself. I love that he has places like Cars.com to check out with us so he can get the best bang his buck and find someone reliable and safe.
Yeah, baby. I was hot stuff driving around town in this puppy, riding that clutch and grinding those gears.
Tell me about YOUR first car and your plans for your kid's first car!


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Wednesday, August 30, 2017

5 Tips to Make Moving Easy


Moving home can be a stressful experience, even if everything goes smoothly, you still have a lot to do before and after the big day. Trying to organize your move so that it becomes less stressful is something everyone should do, but where do you start?

There are many easy things you can do that will make your life much easier, and they won’t take much time at all.

Choose Your Moving Crew
Having a company move your house for you is one of the best things you can do. Not only will it be quicker because they are professional, but it will also mean less anxiety and stress to get it all done in one day.

Companies such as Small Moving Inc can move you with little fuss and no stress. They will also be insured in case of damage, which you won’t have if you do it yourself.

Pack an Overnight Bag
Just as you would if you were going away for a weekend, pack a bag with all the essentials you will need for the night and the next day. Then, if you are too tired once you have finished moving, you won’t have to sift through all your things to find what you need.

Another good idea is to make sure the bed is the first thing put together and ready to go. Therefore, you can just crash out at the end of the day without late night panic and dread.

Pack the Items You Need First in a Clear Box
Make sure that you pack all your essentials in a clear box so that it stands out from the rest of the boxes. In there, you should place your toilet rolls, tea or coffee things, kettle, phone chargers and anything else you will need.

Try to make sure that this box is one of the last to go on the truck, or take it in the car with you. That way, when you arrive, you will have it all ready instead of waiting for it to be unpacked.

Padding for Your Breakables
If you don’t want to spend a fortune on bubble wrap, there is a good idea that will still protect your breakable items. Wrap them in clothing and tie them with string, then you can pack them, and they will be protected. If you need additional protection, roll up socks and gloves and tuck them in the corners or gaps.

It is also a good idea to tape mirrors or glass so that if they get broken, the pieces will be contained.
  
Label Your Boxes
Although this is a sensible thing to do, a lot of people don’t write on the boxes where they will go. It makes it much easier for the crew to place them in the right room, and it means you won’t need to move them around later.


These are just a few of the things you can do to make moving day easier. If you can keep organized as you are packing, you will find it will take less time to unpack at the other end. 

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

The dos and don’ts of buying vintage furniture – What to look out for and how to get the biggest bang for your buck


Buying furniture is always a tricky task, regardless of what kind of furniture you’re aiming to buy. It is due to all the different aspects of it that you need to keep into consideration. Will it fit in your living room? Will the colors match the ones that are already running across your hallways? How well will that new Mid Century Modern Dining Table match with the rest of your furniture? All these questions are often unanswered until the decisive moment of purchase. But not having a plan beforehand leads most times to scenarios in which people are unhappy with what they’ve bought. It is avoidable, and you can make sure that whatever you purchase from the local antique store or online will have a solid spot in your home. Both you and your guests will appreciate the beauty of a properly managed vintage piece of artwork. To do this, you just need to pay mind to some simple tips and keep a couple of others into account as well. With that said, if you’re ready to venture into the land of vintage furniture and get a better idea of what you need to do before buying, let’s carry on and start digging into the solid advice we’ve prepared for you.

Look beyond the first impression
First impressions are of course crucial and once made, they cannot change. However, when it comes to furniture and especially vintage furniture, you should try and look past those first impressions. What may look unattractive or unpolished right now could turn into something entirely new (so to speak) that will do wonders for your interior décor. You like that vintage chair but don’t agree with the color it has? Or maybe the paint is chipped off in many places, completely ruining the integrity of the piece. These are scenarios in which you should get that chair, keeping in mind that it’s only a fresh coat of paint away from being a perfect addition to your vintage collection. The same thing can go for any furniture.  Try to look into the future when you’re looking at vintage furniture, and try to assess what it would look like with a bit of maintenance.

The bones of furniture piece are the most important
This kind of ties in with the previous bit of advice, in the sense that you shouldn’t judge the integrity of a piece of furniture by its exterior appearance. Just as a chair can be re-painted, so can glass, tapestry and any other kind of material see improvement at the hand of a talented, contemporary artisan. Keeping this in perspective, the most important part of any furniture is its bones. To be more precise, we’re talking about what could refer to as the skeleton of that furniture piece.  The part of it that holds everything together is the most important one, and as long as that one is in good health, the overall furniture piece still has a chance to play a valuable role in your home’s décor.

Measure before shopping, don’t shop before stepping
This one is pretty self-explanatory, as it refers to the necessity of measuring the space you have in your house or apartment before you set out to buy more furniture. There’s no use for a beautiful closet or dining table if you don’t have room in your home for it. Therefore, making sure that you would have a place to put it in is essential when going vintage shopping. Even more so that regular furniture, old furniture might require some extra breathing room around it in support of its more fragile state or the aesthetic it’s trying to pull off. Take a good measurement tape and see precisely how much room you can spare before going to your local vintage furniture shop. 

Once you are ready to spend your money, however, don’t contemplate too much on where everything is going, either. While it is important to assess the relationship between space and the actual furniture, you should also trust your heart.  If you like something and you know you have the room for it, buy it. You can figure out precisely how it’s going to go inside a room once you get there.

Expand your shopping horizon
We previously mentioned shopping from your local shop. It brings us to another vital topic, which is getting into the habit of checking more markets for quality and beautifully crafter vintage pieces. It’s not just the local shops of specific interest that hold important pieces, but also the various vendors you can find online. There are countless shopping opportunities online, with many different vendors offering incredibly beautiful and rare pieces that would do wonders for your vintage collection.

Right now, you might be wondering just what kind of merchants you can find online. The beauty of the online medium is that it has no boundaries and you can find anything if you look in the right places. You can visit antique shops that have an online website, where they display larger stocks of available furniture, which isn’t available for display in physical stores. You can also get in touch with individual vendors that want to sell a vintage piece inherited from their great, great aunt. Many people sell many things for different reasons, and having access to the platform on which they decide to auction them is highly beneficial for you.

Beware of cheap fakes
Usually, when it comes to antiques, if a price is too good to be true, that’s because it is. Many people thrive off of selling cheap knockoffs to unsuspecting people that just like the idea of owning vintage furniture. To protect yourself from these people, it’s important to take the time and examine the merchandise you are thinking about buying. It’s a lot easier than you might think, especially with the modern tools we have at our disposal today. If a vintage piece of furniture is authentic, it should bear the mark of its original designer somewhere on it. Look for this mark and once you find it, use your phone to Google that designer and get more information about them and the furniture you’re trying to buy. If the vendor you are dealing with seems offended or actively protests to your inquiries, you should consider looking for furniture somewhere else. An honest vendor that sells the real deal will not mind you being cautious. In fact, they will most likely understand why you need to do it, as they should be even more accustomed than you when it comes to the dangers of cheap fakes.

Keep a unified design in mind
No matter how diverse your collection of vintage furniture might get, it’s important always to have a central design concept in mind. It can get colorful and hectic from a design point of view in a room, once you start adding elements from different time periods, made by various artists and so on. The key to making everything look beautiful together is to find common elements that bind them together. For instance, it doesn’t matter if you have furniture from 5 different eras in your living room and if they feature radical design concepts all across the board. As long as all of them pertain to a blue color scheme, they have something in common that makes them look great from afar.


Now that you’ve read some of the most important things to remember before going shopping for vintage furniture, you can properly buy and stay away from shady deals. There are a lot of people that have started their passion for buying vintage furniture with a flop, so you not adding to their numbers isn’t by any means a tragedy. You know what to look for, you know who to look for, and you also know where to look for them. With these tools at your disposal, you will be quite surprised at how easy it will become for you to populate your entire home with some of the finest vintage pieces available on the market, on any market. Before you know it, you will barely have room for a candlestick, thanks to all the valuable things you were able to spot and pick up along the way.

Saturday, August 26, 2017

Sign up for Hulu, get Mad #Swagbucks!!! This Weekend Only!


*Personal note: my family has been with Hulu for years and we love it. My oldest son watches all of his CW shows on there and I get to watch all the old Housewives when I get a moment to just relax. There are also a lot of great movies on there. And cartoons. And documentaries that we love for homeschooling.

If you're a TV lover, Hulu is running a special on their offer through Swagbucks this weekend only: You'll get $30 (paid in the form of points called SB) for trying Hulu for a month. That will cost you $7.99, so you're making $22 on the deal! 

Hulu has tons of current and classic programming, movies, brilliant original series, and more. Here's how you do it: 

1. Click this link. You need to be a Swagbucks member to take advantage of this offer, and if you don't have an account you can create on here, which takes 30 seconds.
2. Click "Continue" and sign up for Hulu
3. Enjoy Hulu! You should have your points within 30 minutes. You must be a first time Hulu member to receive SB for this offer.

Haven't tried Swagbucks yet? They're a site where you earn points (called SB) for doing things like online shopping, watching videos, taking surveys, and discovering deals and services you might like to try (like Hulu!). You then take those points and turn them into free gift cards to places like Amazon, Starbucks, Walmart, Target, or PayPal cash.

This is a great time to join because when you sign up through the link above and get your 3000 SB, you'll get a bonus 300 SB at the beginning of September. So that's $30 (3000 SB) for trying Hulu plus your $3 (300 SB) bouns, which gets you 3300 SB, which means you make $25 total for trying Hulu!

Thursday, August 24, 2017

8 Foods that Are Aphrodisiacs to Get You in the Mood

Many of us will enjoy a romantic meal together as part of a date or a date night for married couples.  Food has long been known to do more than just fill our bellies and give us energy and some foods are known as aphrodisiacs.  But which ones really do help get you in the mood and why?

Hot chilies

This one might sound a little crazy but eating hot chilies releases epinephrine (adrenaline to most of us) that pushes up the heart rate.  This makes the body release endorphins, those natural opiates we all have in our bodies and this makes us feel good.  But don’t be tempted to try eating them off one another’s skin – that same stuff can burn badly.  If you want some bedroom fun, buy something from Pleasure Delights and leave the chilies on the table!

Asparagus

This is another food that you just wouldn’t think could help get you in the mood.  But it can for two reasons – one is that it contains a high amount of Vitamin E and this increases blood and oxygen flow in all important places.  The other is that it has lots of potassium in it and this is linked to the production of sex hormones.  Plus, there is that funny visual element to the food that is good for a giggle…

Bananas

Bananas are ones for the guys because they contain an enzyme called bromelain that has been shown to boost the sex drive.  Bananas also contain potassium, riboflavin and vitamin B2, all of which help to keep energy levels up when you need them most.

Dark chocolate

There are reasons why we give dark chocolate as a present for Valentine’s Day and other romantic occasions, even if we don’t know what they are.  Chocolate contains phenylethylamine which is a stimulate that makes use excited as well as boosting our sense of well-being.  Plus, chocolate contains caffeine and we all know that gives us a boost.  Aim for 75% or higher cacao content to get the best from the snack.

Pomegranates

Pomegranates are very popular at the moment due to their status as a superfood and some of those benefits help them be an aphrodisiac too.  They contain a huge number of antioxidants that can do anything from decrease inflammation to prevent plaque building in the arteries.  But for our topic, the increased blood flow is one of the main benefits.  In fact, some studies have shown that pomegranates can be a natural way to help with problems such as erectile dysfunction.

Salmon

Salmon is popular due to its Omega-3 fatty acid content and this helps with heart health – ensuring a good, strong flow of blood.  But it also contains elements that are required by the body to create vital hormones such as oestrogen, progesterone and testosterone.

Watermelon

Watermelon is a popular summer fruit but is easy to find at all times of the year and is great because it contains a phytonutrient called citrulline.  This increases the nitric acid in the body that boosts blood flow, blood vessel relaxation and even improves sexual arousal.

Strawberries

The aphrodisiac properties of strawberries have been known since the times of Ancient Greece in fact, the goddess whose name leads to the term aphrodisiac – Aphrodite – was said to have cried strawberries when she learned of her love Adonis’ death.  A nice story but the reality is that strawberries are full of Vitamin C which helps the production of sex hormones as well as boosting chemical neurotransmitters – these increase libido.  It even helps the immune system so that cold you have been suffering with doesn’t spoil the mood as much.